Relationship Points System Tool

Relationship Points System

Track happy and sad moments in your friendships and family!

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+5 Points
+10 Points
+20 Points
+50 Points
-5 Points
-10 Points
-20 Points
-50 Points
-100 Points

Smart Grown-Up Tips

The Magic 5:1 Rule (Happy Relationship Secret): Good friendships need 5+ happy moments for every sad one. This list helps you count them!

Big Oopsies vs. Little Oopsies:

  • -100 things usually happen just once but hurt forever
  • -5 things seem small but become big if they keep happening

Fixing Big Mistakes:

  • -20 to -50 point oopsies need:
    • ✓ Saying sorry for real
    • ✓ Doing something nice to make up for it
    • ✓ Maybe getting help from a grown-up

Happy Boosters:

  • +5 things are like friendship glue when done often
  • +50 things make friendships super strong

Best Tip: Share this with friends and family so everyone knows how to be nice!